SHAWARWARI GUDA 7 DON INGANTA TARBIYYAR YARA - SIFFOFIN UWA TAGARI 12

Tarbiya wata kalma ce da take nuni ga yadda ake kula da ‘ya’yanmu da kuma na kasa da mu. Hakika, girma da muhimmancin kalmar 'tarbiyya' sun wuce yadda muke anfani da ita a yau da kullun. Tarbiya ta banbanta da daga al’umma zuwa al’umma, ma'ana, abinda ke da kyau ga wasu mutanen ba lalai bane ya zama yana da kyau ga wasu. Amma a gani nan a kwai wasu abubuwa da za su da ce da kowa, kuma sune na kawo a nan zan yi dan sharhi a kansu, musamman hanyoyin da za’a bi don inganta tarbiya yara.

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SHIN KO KUN SAN LADAN DA MACE KE SAMU A GIDAN MIJINTA? - SIFFOFIN UWA TAGARI 11

Albishirinku matan aure. Zaman gidan miji da kuke yi da yi wa mazajenku hidima, Allah ya tanada muku lada mai yawa. Ga kadan daga cikin irin garabasa dake tattare da aure ga mata.
*Daga lokacin da kikayi aure idan ki ka yi sallah, Allah zai baki lada dubu
*Idan kika kalli fuskar mijinki kika yi farinciki Allah zai baki ladan zikiri dubu
*Idan kika bashi ruwa ya sha Allah zai baki ladan azumin shekara daya
*Idan kika dafa masa abinci mai dadi duk girki daya Allah zai baki ladan hajji da umrah.
*Idan kin samu ciki kullum za'a rubuta miki ladan azumi shi kuma mijin a rubuta masa ladan kiyamul laili, har ki haihu

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SHAWARWARI 52 ZUWA GA MATAN AURE, ZAWARAWA DA 'YAN MATA - SIFFOFIN UWA TAGARI 10

Shakka babu, a wannan zamani 'yan mata da zawarawa kai harma da matan aure suna cikin zullumi da tsoro da rashin kwanciyar hankali, saboda yadda auren su yake yawan mutuwa, bayan kuma, an dauki dogon lokaci ana soyayya a tsakani, kafin a yi auren. Ga wasu shawarwari 40 wadanda idan matan suka yi la'akari da amfani da su da yardar ALLAH za'a samu kyautatuwar zaman aure.

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NASIHA ZUWA GA MATAN AURE - SIFFOFIN UWA TAGARI 9

NASIHA ZUWA GA MATAN AURE

Ki kasance mai yi wa Allah biyayya a bayyane da boye, shi zai hana miki cutar da wadanda kike tare da su, mutane ne ko dabbobi, ki sanya wadannan sunaye hudu na Allah a tare dake koda yaushe, su ne kamar haka: “Assamii’u – Albasiiru – Al’aliimu – Alqadiiru”. Idan ki ka sa wadannan sunaye a gaba gare ki, to zaki rabauta a duniya da lahira, domin zaki bauta ma Allah kamar kina ganinsa.

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SAKO ZUWA GAREKU MATAN AURE - SIFFOFIN UWA TAGARI 8

Aure dai sunna ne na manzon Allah S.A.W, don haka a kowace sunna akwai lada matukar dai an yi ta kamar yadda manzon Allah S.A.W ya koyar. Don haka shi ma aure yana da nashi ladan idan aka yi shi kamar yadda Manzon Allah S.A.W ya koyar. Manzon Allah S.A.W ya yi bayanin irin ladan da ya kamata mace ta samu wajen biyayyan ta ga mijinta. Duk matar da take kyautata ma mijinta, tana faranta masa rai, tana kwantar masa da hankali, tana taya shi farin ciki a lokacin farin ciki, ta kuma taya shi bakin ciki a lokacin bakin ciki. To babu shakka itama xata ga farin ciki a duniya da lahira, Allah ya sa mu dace, amin.

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