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Friday, 25 January 2019

SHAWARWARI 52 ZUWA GA MATAN AURE, ZAWARAWA DA 'YAN MATA - SIFFOFIN UWA TAGARI 10

SHAWARWARI 52 ZUWA GA MATAN AURE, ZAWARAWA DA 'YAN MATA - SIFFOFIN UWA TAGARI 10

Shakka babu, a wannan zamani 'yan mata da zawarawa kai harma da matan aure suna cikin zullumi da tsoro da rashin kwanciyar hankali, saboda yadda auren su yake yawan mutuwa, bayan kuma, an dauki dogon lokaci ana soyayya a tsakani, kafin a yi auren. Ga wasu shawarwari 40 wadanda idan matan suka yi la'akari da amfani da su da yardar ALLAH za'a samu kyautatuwar zaman aure.

     1.     Aurenki ya zama domin neman yardar ALLAh kikayi ba dan tara abin duniya ba.
       2.     Kada ki zama mai kwadayi wajen zaben mijin Aure.
       3.     Ki zabawa 'ya 'yanki uba ta hanyar Auren wanda ki ka yarda da addininsa da dabi'unsa harma da dangantakarsa.
        4.     Ki zama mai hakuri da halayyar mijinki.
         5.     Ki zama mai matukar biyayya ga mijinki.
6.     Ki zama kin iya barkwancin magana wajen baiwa mijinki dariya.
7.     Kada ki zama mai rainuwa a cikin duk abinda mijinki ya baki.
8.     Ki dinga wanke bakinki da safe da yamma da kuma lokacin kwanciya barci.
9.     ki zama mai tsaftar jikinki, gidanki, abincinki, da sauransu.
10.Ki dinga girmama Iyayan mijinki da 'yan uwansa da abokansa.
11.Kada ki zama mai satar kayan mijinki.
12.Kada ki zama mai satar fita unguwa.
13.Ki guji Leke a gidan mijinki, dan yana daga cikin abinda yake raba Aure a tsakanin Hausawa.
14.Ki dinga godewa mijinki a cikin abinda ya baki.
15.ki kiyaye abinda mijinki ya fi so.
16.ki kiyaye abinda mijinki ya fi sonci da safe, rana, dakuma dare.
17.Ki dinga yabawa mijinki kwalliyarsa.
18.Ki dinga yawan neman shawarar mijinki akan duk wani al'amari da zaki yi.
19.Kiyi kwalliya ki tsane tsaf kafin dawowar mijinki.
20.Lallai ki yi kokarin gama aikace-aikacenki kafin dawowar mijinki.
21.Kada ki bari mijinki ya dawo ya sameki gaja-gaja, ki sani kazanta tana haifar da kiyayya.
22.Ki zama mai yawan canza zanen kunshin kafarki da kuma zanen kitso.
23.Kada ki ce mijinki sai ya saya miki abinda ba shida ikon saye.
24.Lallai ki yi amfani da ilimi wajen yanke dukkan wani hukunci.
25.Ki yi shiru a duk lokacin da mijinki yake yi miki fada ko Nasiha.
26.Kada ki zama Al-mubazzara mara tattali.
27.Kada ki tara kayan wanki da yawa a daki, naki ko na mijinki suna wari.
28.Ki kula da yanayin da zai nuna miki cewa mijinki yana cikin Nishadi ko Damuwa.
29.Kada ki ringa baiwa kawayanki labarin sirrin dake tsakaninki da mijinki.
30.Idan zaki yiwa mijinki magana kiyi masa da tattaunsan harshe, da murya mai karya zukata.
31.Idan kika samu sabani da mijinki ki bashi hakuri ko da kuwa kece da gaskiya.
32.Ki zama mai tattali a cikin dukkan abinda kika mallaka a gidan mijinki.
33.Kada ki zama mai yin dare wajan girki.
34.kada ki zama mai yawan fada da makwabtanki.
35.Kada ki kasance mai yawan zagi ko Ashariya.
36.Kada ki ringa baiwa Iyayanki Labarin laifin da mijinki yake miki.
37.Ki zama mai hakuri da juriya da halayyar Iyayan mijinki da 'yan uwansa.
38.Kada ki ringa daga murya sama idan kuna sa-in-sa da mijinki.
39.Kada ki ringa baiwa 'yan uwan mijinki labarin laifukansa.
40.kada ki ci wani abu da mijinki baya son warinsa misali tafarnuwa.

Allah ya bada iko wajen kamanta da aiki da shawarwarin.
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